Dogs are loving and curious by nature. They thrive in social groups, and their long history alongside humans has fostered a deep connection with us.
Yet it's normal to wonder, “Does my dog really love me?”
Building trust with a new dog takes time and patience, and it's why dog matchmaker Heather Dickeson of Austin Pets Alive offers the three-three-three rule for newly adopted dogs: they need three days to decompress, three weeks to learn your routine, and three months to feel at home.
Wherever you are in your life as a pet parent, it's likely your dog signals their growing love and trust in their own ways.
Do Dogs Feel Love?
Studies suggest that dogs might feel love for their people. While their understanding of love may differ from our own, the underlying mechanisms are remarkably similar. Like us, dogs who are lovestruck experience a delightful chemical rush in their brains. Dopamine lights up their reward center, signaling that the feeling they're experiencing is positive.
Simultaneously, oxytocin levels surge.
This chemical messenger is dubbed the “love hormone” due to its role in creating secure bonds. These chemical reactions occur when pet parents simply gaze at, speak to, pet, or otherwise interact with their pet.
So, what does the love of a dog look like?
Let's look at 10 signs that your dog loves you.
1. Nuzzling You Affectionately
Dogs have an exceptional sense of smell, and when they frequently nuzzle you with their heads, they’re not only marking you with their scent to claim you as their own but also expressing their closeness to you. This action is the canine equivalent of a warm hug, their way of saying, “I really like you.”
2. Trusting You Completely
A dog that loves you will allow you to touch even its most sensitive areas, such as its ears, paw pads, and tail. This level of trust means your dog feels safe with you and knows you would never harm it. Just as humans let their guard down around loved ones, dogs use body language to say, “I trust you completely.”
3. Showing Their Vulnerable Belly
When a dog rolls over and exposes its belly, it’s not just a sign of trust—it’s a declaration of love and submission. Since the belly is one of their most vulnerable areas, this gesture is like saying, “I entrust my life to you.”
4. Keeping a Close Eye on You
A dog that loves you will always have its eyes on you—whether you’re working, eating, or watching TV. Their gentle gaze follows your every move, much like how humans lovingly watch over those they care about. This unwavering attention is their way of saying, “I’m interested in everything about you.”
5. Following You Everywhere
No matter where you go—the kitchen, the balcony, or even the bathroom—your furry companion is always by your side. This isn’t just clinginess; it’s their way of saying, “I want to be part of every moment with you.” Instead of exploring the world on their own, they choose to stay close to you.
6. Guarding You in Private Moments
Ever wonder why your dog insists on accompanying you to the bathroom? This is actually an instinctual protective behavior. In the canine world, bathroom breaks are vulnerable moments, and your dog is standing guard to reassure you: “Don’t worry, I’ll protect you.”
7. Sleeping Beside You
If an adult dog voluntarily snuggles up to you while sleeping, it sees you as its ultimate source of security. This behavior sends a clear message: “I feel most at ease when I’m with you.” Just like humans enjoy cuddling their loved ones, this is a dog’s warmest confession of love.
8. Expressing Affection Through Licking
Licking is an important way dogs show affection to one another, and when your dog gently licks your hands or face, it’s their way of saying, “I love you.” However, be mindful of timing—if your dog licks you excessively around mealtimes, they might just be reminding you, “Hey, it’s time to eat!”
9. Always Responding to Your Call
A dog that comes to you immediately when called isn’t just obedient—it’s demonstrating that you are its top priority. This instant response is their way of saying, “I’m always ready for you.” If your dog seems slow to respond, consider strengthening your bond through training, and don’t forget to reward them with treats.
10. Willingly Obeying Your Commands
When a dog follows your commands, it’s not out of fear but out of love and respect. As they carefully complete the tasks you ask of them, their eyes reveal a deeper message: “I’ll do anything to make you happy.”
These seemingly simple actions are your dog’s unique way of saying, “I love you.” They may not use words, but their unwavering loyalty and companionship speak volumes. As owners, the best thing we can do is recognize and appreciate these loving gestures and reciprocate their affection. After all, receiving a dog’s unconditional love is one of life’s most precious gifts.
